love,relationships, and sparks.

What exactly is it that draws two people together. Is it scent? Physical features? Personality? Is it different between two people. It is something that both sexes wish they knew. Wish they understood. I am one of them. I always thought that Relationships were a little more simple than people think. Though they do take some work. I always thought it was this simple. You enjoy talking with each other. There are plenty of things to talk about with your similarities yet enough differences to keep it fresh. You don't repel the other with any imparticular trait or personality fault, you are physically attracted to the other. Bang that simple. I don't really believe in "I feel in my heart he is right for me" that I think is just anxiety that I feel with somebody new. I think relationships shouldn't be based on a feeling or by just knowing it's right. It should be with somebody who makes you feel safe. Somebody you can spend all day with and not get tired of them. Somebody you can look at all day. Shouldn't it be that simple?? Isn't life complicated enough without adding even more confusion and unnecessary pain??